“Meet the Dullards” by Sara Pennypacker

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A boring book deserves a boring write-up. So, here we go, without further ado, meet the Dullards.

The Dullards’ child-rearing strategy was quite… boring. But kids don’t always listen to their parents and  Blanda, Borely, and Little Dud would sometimes come up with such crazy ideas like playing outside,  going to school or reading books. The Dullards couldn’t tolerate such behavior. If it wasn’t the genes, it must have been the place.  “It’s like a circus around here.” It was time to move somewhere duller. But nothing is perfect. Perfectly boring that is. Can you imagine a welcome by an excited neighbor with a chunky applesauce cake? However, even that couldn’t compare to the bright and flowery wallpaper….

Will the Dullards find a perfectly dull place to raise their children? Will the children keep trying to escape the monotony?

This book is so boring through and through. Dull pictures by Daniel Salmieri, uninteresting characters, dry humor… Add it all up and you’ve got an extra hilarious story! ( The exclamation mark is to annoy the Dullards). A story not only for children.

I don’t wish any child to be raised by the Dullards, but I think that a dull moment here and there would not be a bad idea for our over-scheduled and overstimulated kids. Let’s dare to be Dullards once in a while. Boredom can be good. Even inspiring. It can lead to creativity. Our bored kids can actually surprise us with something not so boring after all.

 

 

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Let them be bored!

The other day I was leaving  Junior Gym (a fun and safe place for kids to run the energy out) with my toddler, I overheard a mom talk to her son. “Do you want to have a camp here this week? You’ve had camps all summer so I think that if you stay home this week you will be bored.”

Hmm. Really? He will be bored? Three questions here:

Firstly, is he really going to be bored, or perhaps enjoying a little downtime, without socializing, instructions and schedule?

Secondly,  even if he were to be bored, would it be such a horrible thing to happen for him? Kids need to be bored from time to time. Just like necessity is the mother of invention, boredom is the mother of creativity. Depriving a child of occasional boredom means basically depriving them of an opportunity to think creatively and to learn to play by themselves or with a sibling. (This boy had a younger brother.)

Thirdly, mom, were you really worried about your son’s lack of stimulation or were you rather concerned about your own over-stimulation?  Don’t take me wrong, I don’t blame you. I’ve spent lots of time with my boys this summer and I must say, I’m grateful we are leaving for Maui tomorrow. Otherwise I would need either some therapy or yoga. Or both. But I know that sending my kids to camps for the whole summer would have not been a healthy compromise either. Unless I worked full-time, of course. We ALL have enjoyed lazy mornings, late breakfasts and spontaneous activities. I can’t say that I had a time of my life with all the sword fights, races and play dough stuck to the carpet, but one thing I can say for sure: I don’t remember my boys complain about being bored.